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    March 26

    Facebook Junkies

          

          Are any of you on Facebook?  A while back I read an article on Facebook about how it's being used by people in every age group instead of just college kids.  After hearing so much about it and how great it is I decided to check it out.  The only problem is you can't check out Facebook without creating an account.  I didn't want all my personal information on there so I created a made-up secret identity and used it to check out some of the people on there (at least the ones who don't have their setting set to "private"). I found a lot of people I went to school with...some of them were good friends I wouldn't mind making contact with and others were horrible people who I never want to talk to again.

           I'm not sure I understand the point of Facebook. The article I read stated that it was a tool to keep in contact with all the people in your life.  But my question is: If these people are in your life already, why do you have to keep in contact with them on the computer? When you join Facebook you have to contact all of your friends who are on there and form a "friends" list.  One of the reasons I made this MSN Space was to have the ability to meet different people around the world, people I never would have met in "real life".  But you can't really do that on Facebook--you can look at someone's page but you have to be there "friend" in order to leave a comment...at least that's the way I understand it. 

           And what's the deal with the status bar?  On all the profile pages I looked at the status bar didn't convey any important or interesting information. They all said things like "Bob is happy to be home from work" or "Betty is baking a cake".  Who gives a shit?! What good does that information do me?  It's not like a blog where they can tell a story about their long day at work or why they're baking a cake. Imagine if you got a phone call every time one of your friends performed some little everyday action: "Hi Marge? I'm cleaning the toilet!  Just wanted to let you know!"  It would get tiresome after a while, wouldn't it?  And what's with the "Poke" feature? On the profile page just below your picture there's an option listed that lets you "poke" someone: "Poke Diane", "Poke Carl". It sounds graphically dirty.  Does anybody use this?  What's it for?  What happens when you "Poke" someone?

          So while anonymously surfing through the different names of people I know (or used to know) I found some people I went to school with who I haven't talked to in twenty years.  It was interesting to look through their pictures to see what they look like now,  but to be honest, some of them didn't look too good...the years have not been kind.  It was fun to see these people again but I don't know what I would say to them now...what do you say to people you haven't seen in twenty years?  They're pretty much strangers at that point, aren't they?

          It seems like there are some people who are on Facebook several times a day, which I can't imagine doing.  So if any of you use Facebook I'd be curious to know what you use it for and how often you're on there.  And if you're on Facebook and happen to come across my secret identity be sure to give him a "poke".

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    Hey Lou,
    I totally agree with you on the facebook thing. I've still got mine, but I decided to come back here because like you said, it was great getting to know other people around the world. Hope we can get you to come back to us!
    Shari
    1 day ago
    Jim Bwrote:
    You'd like to think I don't know you wouldn't you , Lou? We do extensive background checks on all of Elizabeth's online, so called, friends. lol (do they still use lol? it's been awhile since I've used the internets)lol. Anyway, thanks for saying hi and reading. I don't get everything with Facebook either, but I like that I can see and hear little things about my brother and his family on it. I think it's really good for family's that are scattered all over the country. If you think Facebook is pointless, you should check out Twitter. About lice, it was death sentence to you socially when I was a kid. I was worried about my daughters' good name being besmirched until I saw the light. Maybe the boys will think they have cooties until after college. Then I won't have to buy a shotgun.
    June 15
    Ellawrote:
    hey lou!

    fb kind of grows on you if you give it a chance. poking is just as dirty as you imagined it, so i would not use that feature. i kid, i kid. i joke, i joke (eminem reference there) aaaanyways...poking is almost as annoying as the nudge feature on msn messenger. it's true that there's no shaking and no noise, but when you get poked there'll be a little message telling you that you've been poked by so and so. it gives you the option to ignore it or poke back. if you choose to poke back, you're very likely to start an annoying poke war. if you ignore it, the warning will go away until the next time the person pokes you.

    i'm surprised you got to look through strangers' profiles. did you choose to belong to a network? because my understanding is that you can only look through random people's profiles (but leave no comments) if they belong to the same network. i'm not a fan of random people seeing what little i do have on my fb wall and pictures so my settings only allow friends to see.

    as to why it's there....still not really clear on that one myself. i think it's trying to encourage people to have less and less physical contact with each other. by announcing what you're doing/feeling in your status bar, people know without having to ask. they might comment with a one-line thing and that's it. interaction over. very time-saving :p

    now wouldn't you have preferred if i'd written you one line and left you well enough alone?!

    byeeee
    Apr. 30
    Lolawrote:
    There are some people I do wish to be friends with on F/B. Just because I know them doesn't mean I want to be their friend. Same principle applies here too, I guess. I've had a really bad encounter with an asshole here on MSN--psychotic , unbalanced and frightfully stupid. Social networking sites are full of them.

    All in all, some people just can't be as totally cool as you and me, Lou. :-)

    Also, F/B has a different feel to it than here. There is it all simple social sentences and shout outs, silly tests and lists, what have you. Here it is a writing forum with some interactions along the way.

    Take care.

    Apr. 18
    Ravenwrote:
    Hey Stranger! I'm on facebook, but lately I've been shunning all forms of Internet. I poke my head in once in a while, shake it really hard then disappear again.
    Hope all is well with you and yours~
    XXX~R
    Apr. 14
    Hello!
    Wooh, I am on school holidays now, which not only means, holiday homework and more sleep, but having more time to spend catching up with my MSN SPACES friends!
    (so yeh, how are you??? looking forward to easter?? Yes, I have facebook. you may add me if you wish. just search for lauren richey galvin and there i'll be! :) )

    Keep well,
    xoxo Lozza
    Apr. 4
    SAAMwrote:
    Yeah, I am on facebook. I go on there at least a couple times a day. I chat with my sister, play a games with some friends, check out what people are doing, look at friends' pictures, share videos of my daughter. A total waste of time, But FUN
    Mar. 26

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